my best friend doesn
she used to take out her anger about a break up on me, and would never initiate us hanging out or anything, so we had a healthy discussion and it went well. except nothing changed. she still doesnt REALLY talk to me anymore (besides small talk) she still doesnt initiate, and for the camp we go to, to read a personal essay/sharing about her life, when i did it i had her on stage with me for support, but now shes doing it and didnt ask me, but asked another friend and someone she just recently became close to. we never hang out or have meaningful conversations anymore. whenever i try to bring it up she says the last thing she wants to do is distance from me, but all i feel is distance and pain and confusion. i need advice.
@communicativeLunch7473 move on plus think if u r in her position, it's really hard not to cross the red line when ur best friend is ur ex
I would suggest moving on. Tell her that you think this friendship is no longer beneficial to you, and that for your own reasons, you don't think you should remain friends. I've had friends growing up that treated me similarly, I eventually outgrew them and made friends with much greater people who actually helped me become who I am today. You should never have to feel this way about any kind of relationship. Your own personal health and feelings come before anyone else's, take care of yourself.
