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will my friend ever talk to me again

User Profile: detour12
detour12 November 3rd, 2015

Okay it started like 3 weeks ago. My teacher told me that my friend needed space and i can only talk to him once a week. well behind my teachers back i went to talk to my friend. the day he found out about it and is making me stay away from him one month. My teacher says he needs space because of schoolwork. I can only wave to him ,i cannot speak to him.When i wave to him he waves back and Rarely he waves first or Nods first. I really just miss talking to him. I was upset and i was told i cannot talk to him.I was in tears and had suicidal throughts.We played cards together and every time i look at the cards i just miss him and just want to cry. But every time i see him i wave and he waves back and i just wish things could go back to the way their were. I am not sure if he still likes me or if we are friends. Please help I feel very hopeless about this and that he won't talk to me again or i won't be able to talk to him again. honestly i don't know what to do anymore. PS today November 3 ,i waved to him and he waved back each time i waved to him. but i am getting this strange thought he is trying to avoid me or something. like this morning ,i saw him and he went the other way around so I met him back on the other side of the room to wave to him and he wave back but kind of walk fast by me but i highed gived him and he did it back. Last block i saw him and he looked over and i waved but not sure but he did not walk by me ,instead he walked on the other side of the hall. i was on one side ,standing waiting for class. Please not sure if i am just seeing things or not

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User Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 November 8th, 2015

Hey there!

I'm confused. Why is your teacher making you guys stay away from each other? What is your friend's opinion about what your teacher says?

I'm sorry things are going so bad ... or at least they seems to be going bad. What I can tell you is that no once can force anyone to stay away from you. It must be their choice. If they are manipulated to stay away or they just decided it's in their best interest to avoid you, that's on them not your teacher.

What stops you from trying to reach out to this friend? I see there is a desire of connection between you two but neither or you is actually taking any step. School work means you cannot stay close to each other while in school but what about your free time?

I'd say you could at least try to speak again with this person and find out what are his wishes and why is he acting like that. At least you will know if you should keep wishing or you need to move on. It's hard but it's better to understand what is going on than suffer in silence.