3 minute panic

@himydear Hello! To preface it, we are on opposite ends of the world so it’s a LDR, together 2.5 years. About two months ago, I tell her I’m going to the mall and won’t be on my phone for a bit. I go, hang out with my bro, eat food and shop, and when I get home, she has posted content on her story about her doing hookah. Both her and I have medical conditions where it can severely harm us. I ask her about it and she gets all angry. Apparently it was her first time but I really wasn’t so sure by the things she was saying in her story. I ask her if she’s going to keep doing it, she says yes. I bring up both of our health points, especially me (almost dièd once and would prefer not to again) and she explodes at me, calls me nasty names, falsely accuses me of cheating for literally no reason (I have never cheated on her and haven’t ever considered it), then blocks me for a week. She unblocks me and slowly we get back into our world building project, but not talking outside of it. Dunno what we are. Today is her birthday so I sent her a video I made wishing her happy birthday. We are talking but not much. I get the feeling she doesn’t want to talk, just based on her responses. I don’t know why she changed so much, I suspect there’s someone else, but I don’t know. I wonder if I should not have made her that video and sent it.