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9 Month relationship

User Profile: yandel10
yandel10 September 1st, 2025

Any advice to get through a 9 month relationship breakup? She wasn’t changing and it was killing me mental health and ifs best for both if we seperate I’m just full of sadness I’m 17 but I don’t wanna try this dating or catching feelings thing ever again pls help me

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User Profile: strawberryVision6987
strawberryVision6987 September 1st, 2025

@yandel10

I want to start off by saying i am sorry you are facing so much sadness. Relationships, especially when you are younger, can be a challenging thing to navigate because not only are you learning who you are as a person and what you want for yourself, but so is the partner. 

Right now you may feel you do not want to date again or catch feelings, and that is valid. Taking time to go through all your emotions and understand what you need for yourself is a crucial step in healing. 

My advice would be to surround yourself with the people you love, write down your feelings into a journal, and do things you love. Over time this grief will diminish, and you will be able to understand what you truly want.

I wish you the best on this healing journey! :)