A crush at work

@peachCity5078

Hey girl, how ya doin,

(If you're not a girl, i say that to everyone💗)

Alright well depending on his personality it could take him a few minutes to weeks, even if he likes u. (for the number bit) If you wanna get closer here are some tips:

The first couple steps

1. "Hey, you're new, right?" / "How you settling in?"

2. If you ever need help... (act flirty) I'm definitely not the person to go to(laugh)

3. Little touch (when you laugh touch his shoulder and see how he reacts)

4. Make the conversations longer

Topics you can talk about

Work

Pets

Family

intrests/weekends?

Suggestions to get closer:

Team coffee catch up (sit next to him, offer to buy a coffee and if you're really confident ask for a taste of his or idk)

Be mysterious make him want to know more

Hint stuff like you could send him this or show him something on the weekend because that's only when you have time (act busy), it could get him to ask for your number.

A couple questions you can ask yourself that usually help you know if he likes u are:

Does he come up and talk to me?

Does he seem interested?

Does he have a special smile or talk to you longer than others?

Does he look at me?

Is he gay?

Texting (This is for when you get his number, remember you can always ask for it too when you're close enough)

Do's

Keep it short-Keep It Simple Stupid (save long convo's for when your together)

Don't take too long or be too quick (you don't wanna seem desperate or too busy)

theres no other way to say this but, DoN't Be WeIrD or use 2 much t3xt1ng sl@ng (like that lol, keep 'em clear and witty)

Don'ts

Never send more than 2 texts 3 at max- texts, not words, get it? (if you're saying a story break them into sentences)

Avoid sensitive/uncomfortable questions

Don't send too much personal info

Hope this helped! Love you.❤️

Thanks these are actually really good advice 😇

@peachCity5078 hi it happened similarly to me until the female friend approached me about two years ago which led to a coffee date and we resumed a healthy friendship that’s going on till today meeting her tomorrow:)