A future with him
I have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for about 7 months or so now. I often find myself thinking about a future with him. Like getting married, having kids, growing old, yk the works. But lately i’ve been in this downward spiral because i’m just completely lost in life. I don’t want him to leave but I know if this continues i’ll only end up pulling him down with me. All i think is “i won’t be a good mom” “i’d be a bad wife” “he deserves someone who knows what they want in life.”
I just don’t know how to open up to him about it, and I know that he feels something is off. I disappeared for a few days, the guilt was unbearable.
@adventurousHickory9929
I know it's hard but you need to ask him to meet and have a hard but honest conversation.
It's not your natural fears that will make him leave.
It's the silence and the running away and not reaching out.
That causes more hurt and confusion.
You can do this.
You deserve to be happy.
Let him support you.
You are a good person.
You can be a great wife and mother in the future if that's what you want 💚
