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Anxiety from last relationship

User Profile: cookiedrummer
cookiedrummer October 13th, 2025

I was dating some for a few months at the beginning of last year. That relationship took a big toll on my mental health. I felt like I couldn’t say no to a lot of things (***, video stuff, etc; nothing in person), and just overall was not a good position I was in. Anyways, now I am in a very healthy, very happy relationship, with someone that knows what happened and is very supportive. But I still get very bad anxiety about the situation. Some days it’s not too bad, but other days it’s all I can think about. I’m just looking for any advice 

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User Profile: EnlightenedArtist
EnlightenedArtist October 15th, 2025

Hi @cookiedrummer✨

Thank you for sharing - may I suggest that every time a thought or memory from the past arrives you tell yourself: “this is part of the past and it is over, I am safe now”

Or maybe: “I have overcome that experience, it is over. Now I have a beautiful relationship”

The past is gone -You are safe now ✨

Sending you positive vibes ✨