Avoidant partner
I’m in avoidant- anxious relationship
I don’t know now if my partner “ the avoidant one “ wants to be with me
After 6years I don’t know if she is distant or just left me in silence
She loves me but she stops doing anything
I saw the love in her eyes and sadly i saw fear either bc our relationship getting sireous she suddenly said she wants break up, she doesn’t want to lose me and finally she agreed to trying for me
But she didn’t do anything I can’t understand what happened we were deeply in love.
I want her but i don’t know what to do more and she doesn’t talk to me
I don’t even know if she end it or not
It’s 6 year of love ! I’m so confused and heartbroken 😢 i don’t want to leave her but I want her to try for me too
Hi @Liliesx5✨
Thank you for sharing - It is so good that you have identified the kind of relationship you have been it. That awareness is magnificent!
As you already know, the more you try to get the avoidants attention or love, the more they “run away”
I would humbly suggest to give her some space… some days, weeks, even a month if possible, then maybe write to her expressing that she means a lot to you but that a relationship has to be a work of TWO, ask her if she wants to try again but make sure that you both are on the same page
Wishing you the best energy✨
