Boyfriend and Chinese restaurant
What does it mean when your boyfriend out of blue removes his WhatsApp picture and stops responding no internet
Should I be concerned
For context we have been together on online distance relation for three months and he is always online we talk all day long so suddenly he read my last text which was him trying to say something flirty but I didn’t understand
He said “ did you do your kegels” I was too tired to go look it up later I realised what he meant but I always feel behind with his flirting ways and now he disappeared
And today I told him iam going to a Chinese restaurant for the first time to try food that he recommended to me he even suggested for me to go and he would pay by sending money
But he never sent it and this evening he just kinda disappeared now iam stuck in Chinese restaurant alone don’t know how to eat this food
@bestAcres8668
I’m sorry that you’re there all by yourself right now. This guy is being irresponsible—though, to be fair, I can’t judge him based on just this one instance. Still, I think he could have handled it better. And yes, long-distance relationships are complicated. But you have every right not to reply, or to focus on your own things instead—that’s perfectly okay. It’s not a flaw, and it’s not "wrong." If you give a heads-up, that’s fine—but he didn’t. Is he at fault? I don’t know. But you deserve to be treated with respect; if he doesn’t offer an explanation, you’re well within your rights to respond in kind—or to demand an explanation. Either way, this is your experience—a difficult one, perhaps, but it’s yours.
@bestAcres8668
I personally don't think that's flirty, I think that's a distasteful thing to ask someone, and especially only three months in.
Then he recommends the restaurant and offers to pay, and then disappears, sends no money and then doesn't respond
This is very immature and selfish behaviour and if he's going to do that so early in, it's a massive red flag to me and I think you deserve someone that keeps their promises and isn't so fickle 😔🩵
