Breakup 🥹
Hi people, I would like to talk a little bit about something. My gf broke up with me like a month and a half ago, the way she did it was really rude and generate a psychological damage on me, it’s not necessary to say that it destroyed me completely, I was with her for 3 years and now that I’m finishing school all my plans with her just dissapeard. Right now I’m receiving professional treatment to handle this, and I found out many things about me and my role in the relationship, and the main problem was that I lost myself in that relationship, I wasn’t myself anymore and I let many things to happen, I let her to take the control of the relation and I just let a lot of things to happen, things that I didn’t like.
Right now I’m felling bad because I lost someone I really loved, someone I wanted a future with. But also I feel frustrated with myself because I didn’t affront so many problems, I feel like a failed to myself and to my relationship with her, and right now I don’t feel like doing anything anymore. I’m sad and angry with myself and just thinking that someone better than me can get in her life is breaking my mind 😕
@IsaacPM
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I'm sorry you are hurting.
I'm sorry you lost yourself along the way.
It's difficult afterwards because what we should have done and said differently can haunt us.
And we are left with no closure.
Relationships are not about being one sided.
Her feelings didn't matter more than yours.
One person doesn't get to dictate and control everything.
I know you are sick thinking about her with someone else.
But you need to heal and what about you in the future, being with someone who sees you, who allows you to be you, who celebrates and cherishes you and gives the same energy back.
You deserve that!
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Thank you, right now everything looks bad from my perspective, I really hope I can heal someday, I deserve to heal 😕
@IsaacPM
It's raw right now, so it looks bleak, but you will heal and you will be happy again 💚