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Break up, post Narcissist

User Profile: proactiveTurtle2189
proactiveTurtle2189 October 5th, 2025

Hello,

I was just looking for people to talk to. I am feeling a little lonely. I recently broke up after over six years and have finally seen and realized that he was a narcissist. I realize now he wasn't capable of loving me or caring about me or my feelings. He did a lot of harmful things, but he always blamed me and never apologized or tried to fix things. I know I am better off, but I am lonely. I know I am not ready to try and date.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 5th, 2025

@proactiveTurtle2189

🥺

Six years is a long time.

I'm sorry that you are struggling, you deserved better. 

You deserved love, respect, care and compassion and sometimes we hang on longer in relationships than we should have because we care, we are manipulated into believing we are the problem.

You deserve and need time to heal and move forward and to know that you deserve to be happy, and the next time don't stay with someone who is not giving you the same energy you give, if it doesn't feel right, it usually isn't 💜💕

User Profile: EnlightenedArtist
EnlightenedArtist October 5th, 2025

Thank you for sharing @proactiveTurtle2189 ✨

I am sorry that you are feeling lonely… a brake up is a challenging process, particularly when it was with a narcissist.

Take one day at a time, get back to yourself, what you love and the little things that make you smile 😊

Sending you lots of good vibes ✨

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User Profile: proactiveTurtle2189
proactiveTurtle2189 OP October 5th, 2025

Thank you. I am doing pretty good. I sm just lonely and miss having someone to talk to.

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