Break up, post Narcissist
Hello,
I was just looking for people to talk to. I am feeling a little lonely. I recently broke up after over six years and have finally seen and realized that he was a narcissist. I realize now he wasn't capable of loving me or caring about me or my feelings. He did a lot of harmful things, but he always blamed me and never apologized or tried to fix things. I know I am better off, but I am lonely. I know I am not ready to try and date.
@proactiveTurtle2189
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Six years is a long time.
I'm sorry that you are struggling, you deserved better.
You deserved love, respect, care and compassion and sometimes we hang on longer in relationships than we should have because we care, we are manipulated into believing we are the problem.
You deserve and need time to heal and move forward and to know that you deserve to be happy, and the next time don't stay with someone who is not giving you the same energy you give, if it doesn't feel right, it usually isn't 💜💕
Thank you for sharing @proactiveTurtle2189 ✨
I am sorry that you are feeling lonely… a brake up is a challenging process, particularly when it was with a narcissist.
Take one day at a time, get back to yourself, what you love and the little things that make you smile 😊
Sending you lots of good vibes ✨