Broke up
Hello , my girlfriend broke up with me yesterday saying she feel confused and because of mistakes over time now she feel nothing and she needs time to figure it out this is the last message from her
I understand i don’t like to break up or to leave u was not something i planned or wanted
Is just now i feel nothing
Because i hurt me a lot in past and in general
So yes idk better dont text me few days
After in the future qs well the destiny may change everything
But now idk..
I will give her time but i need help to win her back please anyone help me i still have a chance what can i do to win ger over again and show her i want her and will be better this time?
@klaus9998
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Im.sorry to hear that.
For now, give her the time she needs and the space.
Respect her decision.
If she's ready down the line to talk, really listen, and no matter what happens, learn, move forward and in any relationship, trust, compassion, respect and love are the core Foundations 💜🥰
@klaus9998
@klaus9998
Hey there. I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's very hard to deal with such things. Based off of what I'm reading, here's the best advise I can give you.
First, it's important to acknowledge the situation from BOTH sides. You have your feelings and she has hers. For her to have broken up with you, there had to be reasons. If you had discussed these said "reasons" with her and yet no change was made from your side was made — she's backing out because there was nothing worth investing to. For a relationship to be healthy and worthy investing in, you have to give her something worth investing in.
I suggest you give her the space she needs and invest into changing yourself in the ways she wish you would've when you were with her. Don't change just because it's what she would've wanted. Do it because becoming a bigger person can bring bigger and better things. If that big and better thing is HER, then it will happen. You can't FORCE it.
Getting her back is complicated. If she speaks to you again, you have to truly be invested. Also, don't try to immediately force or beg her to be with you. SHOW her WHY it's worth giving you another chance.
Understand her side, reflect on each other's actions, DISCUSS what hurt both of you (not argue).
Maturity is the best way to get someone back. It's not impossible. Best of luck to you man. :)