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Complex family dynamics

User Profile: tidyBlackberry5678
tidyBlackberry5678 October 28th, 2025

I live away from home because of job my mom and grandmother lives together my grandmother is toxic verbally abusive and mentally ill she gets aggressive too i worry about my mom and i am getting married next year my spouse is not ready to live with my mom what should I do my father passed away 10 yrs back no siblings

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 29th, 2025

@tidyBlackberry5678

🥺

This is such a tough situation.

Newly Weds never really desire to have their parents live with them.

I'm so sorry your mother has to go through this with your grandmother, no one deserves that abuse at all.

It's not acceptable.

Could your mother possibly find her own small apartment and maybe just visit your grandmother?

Is that feasible?

💜💕

User Profile: WellsFiction
WellsFiction October 29th, 2025

@tidyBlackberry5678 I'm so sorry. That sounds very tough.  Praying for yall.

User Profile: Helpfulbuddy1212
Helpfulbuddy1212 October 29th, 2025

@tidyBlackberry5678talk to your mom and do what she says