Confused
Please tell me I’m not crazy. I’ve been with this guy for about 9 months. Know him my whole life. He is divorced 4 kids. I am divorced 3 kids. Mine are grown and out of house his are still home but he only gets them every other weekend. I love his kids no problem there. My problem I’m having is he never has time for me it seems. He don’t call send text nothing he says he’s to busy for that. But he is always on his phone talking and texting everyone else. He talks to his ex wife more than he talks to me. We constantly argue about this. And he always finds a way to switch it around and makes it my fault. I don’t get it. I haven’t don’t anything to this man. I might be a bit needy. But what girl isn’t. When he gets off work he takes a shower reads a book and constantly on his phone talking to who know who then goes to bed it’s like I’m not even there. But when he wants something from me he is the most affectionate person I know. Then when he gets what he wants it’s back to I don’t exist. I don’t think for a minute he is cheating. I just don’t understand why I’m not his priority am I asking for to much of him
@HUNT4ASPARKLE2DAY
You are not crazy.
Or asking too much.
Yes we can all be needy but both people in a relationship needs to make time.
Not sit on their phones and then insist they have no time.
But funny he can turn on the charm when he wants his fun and then switch off again.
Trust me, if he turned on the charm for me, I'd be suggesting the only contact he would be having until he put in the effort was that of a cold shower 💚
Oh I tried that and he blew up.
@HUNT4ASPARKLE2DAY
That's his problem, it's not his divine right to get his own way but continue to treat you like you are invisible until he wants something, doesn't work like that, his needs are not more important than yours 🩷
I just came out of an abusive relationship and I guess I’m holding on to hope. He really is a good guy. And his past relationship with his wife she cheated on him and he constantly thinks I’m going to do the same. So he has a guard up to protect himself I understand that. But something has to give.
@HUNT4ASPARKLE2DAY
I'm sorry you were in a bad relationship, I have no doubt he's a good guy, but good guys put in the effort and not just the bare minimum to get their way 💖🩷💜🩵🧡💙💛💚
