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Confused situationship

User Profile: kyudosan
kyudosan May 26th, 2025

I started hanging out with this girl. We really clicked and she’s easy to talk to. We’ve hung out a couple times. Baseball game, late night restaurants, bars, karaoke. When we’re together we are pretty much inseperable. There’s only one issue. She never texts me back. She explained to me that she just really never texts back. It’s just how she is. I don’t let it get to me but deep down it bothers me.

The last time I saw her she kind of gave me the cold shoulder and Irish goodbyed me. We were at work. I wasn’t working, she had just finished her shift. Also she spent the night at my place the other night and we had a really great time.

I really am starting to like this girl and would like to hang out more to get to know her. What should I do?

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User Profile: SnowSmile4863
SnowSmile4863 May 27th, 2025

@kyudosan

It must be so confusing to feel close to her in person but distant when you’re apart. Your feelings about the mixed signals are totally valid—you deserve someone who makes you feel seen. On 7 Cups, we can’t offer advice, but I’m here to listen. Wishing you kindness as you navigate this. 🍭 good luck