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Coparenting suggestions

User Profile: straightforwardPineapple6234
straightforwardPineapple6234 October 10th, 2025

Any advice from anyone dealing with coparenting?

How do you seperate that "Gosh! I really wish I never had to see you again! But I have to because we share custody of our kid?"

It's eating at me that I never want to see this person like EVER AGAIN. but i have to. I have to because we share a child. How do you deal with these emotions? Its depressing me.

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie October 11th, 2025

@straightforwardPineapple6234

Hiya. So, sorry to hear this but well done you for seeking advice. It does sound stressful for you. Hopefully others will see your post and you’ll receive some good support. Wishing you the best ❤️

User Profile: Lawoftheland01
Lawoftheland01 October 11th, 2025

I’ll be looking into coparenting soon I think. I don’t hold animosity toward my partner (maybe a little). Maybe reminding yourself that your child probably enjoys spending time with their other parent? I was the kid in a split household and even though my parent and I didn’t get along, I still enjoyed being able to see it. Trying to set aside your own feelings in exchange for prioritizing your child’s happiness and stability. I’d also be happy your ex is willing to follow the court order— not many are. Aside from trying to compartmentalize and separate your feelings and your child’s, I don’t have a lot of help.