Cultural barrier

hello there, there’s just something I wanna share with a relationship. I’m I’m in a long distance relationship with someone from Indonesia. First of all I really love her and her family And I even liked their culture. However, there’s one big thing that I don’t like. I don’t like the boundaries that we have to have that you don’t have in western cultures. It makes me so angry it’s like I don’t want to sound like a person to judge others but I take logic first over everything and I know many cultures are not like that. Indonesia is a Muslim country and besides religion Indonesia is a country where you represent your whole community. I’m the person that will never live like that Maybe I’m spoiled with my American freedom but I just feel like there’s more I need to be getting in this relationship. I’m currently in nursing school and I hear about how these girls treat their boyfriends and it makes me so mad because I should be getting that too. I have social anxiety that’s really bad and I can’t meet people in person even if I could. I’m not in the right place to meet people. I just wish I was able to do more with my girlfriend.. We’ve been together for almost 2 years and when I first was getting with her I thought it was something that I can handle but in the long run I just realised that I didn’t get what I expected out of this. It’s not that I don’t love her I do but I don’t like the way we have to do things