Cutting ties with my ex
My ex blocked me on every social media except ***. (He cheated on me with 10 girls and when we broke up. I made friends with different genders because I just trying to be kind since I’m single and I have free will and now he accused me for cheating on him so that’s why he blocked me)
Now I unfollowed him on ***, I don’t know why it hurts even if I know I did the right thing. I’m crying right now because he’ll never see me again and I don’t know why I still seek validation from the person who treated me so bad.
Life became quiet when he blocked me. I felt so alone but I also don’t want to be in a toxic relationship. I don’t understand why I feel this way.
@ririboom
Here is a goodness recipe for ones going through post break up periods:-
Give it time, provide yourself with distractions, stay in touch with other people who care, avoid relapses, don't rush to other relationships, know that you matter and deserve the best.
It's part of life a lot of us go through, you are not alone. Value yourself 🌟
Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice. The flow that has passed will never return. Treasure every moment of your life.
There is so much more to come, you haven't lived your best yet.
GL;HF.
Celebrate that you value your self worth, not to be falsely accused and mistreated.
Accept that although it wasn't a healthy relationship, you cared and there were good times.
Realise that, it's a confusing time and that anything you feel is normal.
Focus on what you like, what brings you joy, keep taking care of yourself and know you are sweet and should be respected and cherished always :)