Fake promises and Lies
Hi guys
I'm Snooze,
I'm new here thought I'll put out what I'm feeling here. I don't know this actually works but I'm trying.
I'm in a relationship for 3yrs now haven't been taken to even 1 date in these years and I get is lies about location and blamed for expecting transperancy.
Haven't got changes after repeated apologies I have lost myself in this. Gained like 30 kgs in 7 months I have 0 motivation and I don't know how to get out of this. And I'm lossing myself emotionally too.
And my partner is not even addressing things with me haven't received birthday gifts for the past 2 yrs I'm not sure if I'll get this time for the 3rd year.
I have no friends to talk too. I'm all alone here.
Hi Snooze,
Firstly, I want to say you’re not alone. I’m really glad you shared your story here.
It sounds incredibly painful to be in a relationship where you feel lied to and unappreciated. No wonder you’re feeling exhausted, unmotivated, and like you’re losing yourself — that’s a very human response to long-term emotional stress.
From what you’ve shared, this doesn’t sound like a relationship that’s supporting your emotional well-being. The fact that you’re able to name what’s hurting you shows awareness and strength, even if you don’t feel strong right now.
You deserve care, respect, honesty, and thoughtfulness. Many people stay in painful relationships for complex reasons — hope, attachment, fear of being alone. If it feels safe, you might gently explore what’s been keeping you here and what you need most right now. Writing things down can sometimes help bring clarity without pressure.
Listening to your own feelings and needs, at your own pace, can become a quiet compass back to yourself. You don’t have to have all the answers — even small steps toward feeling safer and more grounded matter.
Thank you so much for your support 🙏🏻
You typing this only means so much to me to just be seen 🥺
Thank you I'll make sure to follow these steps to get better.
I can understand your pain. I hope we can talk? I was in long distance relationship too and there pas no transparency from my partner side. I know how it feels having this much from person you truly love but I think only the mutual talk can help
I pray for your health
I can understand your pain. I hope we can talk? I was in long distance relationship too and there pas no transparency from my partner side. I know how it feels having this much from person you truly love but I think only the mutual talk can help
I pray for your health