He Blocked Me Without a Word
I've been struggling this past few days. It's only been 3 days since he left without remorse. We've been together for 1 year and 10 months and he just ended it just like that as if I'm a trash that's useless to him now. Our relationship is LDR, I'm from Philippines and he's from India. The last time we talked, he just got finish taking exam to get a job. Idk what did I do wrong? Maybe he wants to focus on his career now and he just see me as a disturbance. It's really painful. He can tell it right? He can communicate with me. He could have been ended with explanation at least even just a few words. I tried to contact him with all the possible ways I can, like sending him messages through his email. But he's just... heartless. Makes me wonder who is this person I love and invested my time and effort for this past almost 2 years of relationship? Did he really loved me? Or he just used me as a pass time? I know only he can answer that but sadly, he doesn't want to do something anymore. He just completely dumped me, ghosted me as if I'm a worthless thing now. I hope I can get through this break up phase. It really hurts. I hope you can give me tips how to move on? What do I need to do?
@Nefarieee
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That's heartbreaking.
No one should ghost someone like that after nearly two years of chatting and bring in a relationship .
That's very cowardly.
He should have communicated with you.
Been honest .
That way, you wouldn't have to fill in the blanks yourself.
Too many people today are love bombing and promising people the world with no intentions of following through on it.
They are not genuine.
He should have taken accountability.
He is responsible for how he treated you.
You did nothing wrong.
I wouldn't lower myself to reach out to him anymore.
He doesn't deserve your time.
You deserve to heal and to be happy and find someone with true integrity and intentions 💜💕
Thank you so much for your kind words😊
@Nefarieee
A pleasure 💜
@Nefarieee Time.... it is the hardest thing ever, but you just need time. But in that time, pour into yourself; work on yourself for yourself. The thought of "what if" will slowly leave your mind and it will hurt a little less. Do and become everything you said you would. It's easier said then done, so cry, scream, and do whatever emotionally to feel and let it out. And IF he comes back, I hope that you are so strong in who you are and who Christ says you are that you never go back to someone who could make you feel the way you do right now. Praying for you and trust me, it gets better. It feels like that was your best, but that was only your best for right now.
Thank you so much. It really means a lot😊
