Heartbroken
Two weeks ago, my best guy friend unfollowed me on ***. He posted that he is in a relationship that I knew nothing about. What really sucks is I feel this man was supposed to be in my life, in a spiritual way. Such as we both were super close and wanted to be better people.
I know I’m going to get a lot of hate because I’m currently taken by someone else. I am honest about the whole thing with my guy friend. I don’t blame him for leaving.
i know my best girl friend is getting tired of me talking about him. I don’t blame her.
i don’t ask for pity. Currently I am in therapy getting the help I need. But I miss my best guy friend so much. :(
It is really terrible that your best friend unfollowed you and shocked you with a sudden relationship. I hear you are close with your best friend in a spiritual way.
Sorry but you don’t deserve the hate and I sense that you can’t help but feel disappointed. He could have established strong boundaries and remain best friend(spiritually close) with you. Of course it’s very valid to miss your best friend that suddenly left you because of the good memories you shared. How could you forget so easily right? It’s your best friend! I can understand it is very hurtful to be left suddenly.
Now unfortunately he seems to have severed ties with you and didn’t even communicate directly with you. If he doesn’t treat you well and does not even initiate a conversation with you, it is very hard to remain best friends. Your feelings are valid.
I wish you knew you are worthy of a better treatment! Since your best friend is becoming distant to you and is likely ending the friendship already which you need to be aware of, please don’t dwell on the past memories that made you feel extremely good spiritually. He already hurt you. I suggest you to focus on self care to heal. For example, you can join interest groups in real life and meet many more potential friends.
Hope you feel better soon.❤️🩹
Thank you for reaching out to me I appreciate the greatest support system from you. It has been very difficult to overcome this heartbreak that I’ve lost about 10 pounds. It’s been hard for me to concentrate once in front of me and I’m just going through grief.
what I found so strange is that my ex best friend did not tell me at all whatsoever that he was in a relationship the whole time I noticed ghosting him saying you shouldn’t rely on me to support you and last month he said he couldn’t be friends with me. He never told me that he was seeing somebody else I did ask him for several months. Are you in a relationship and if you are, please let me know he never responded to that.
