Helppp :(((
I don't speak English but I'm desperate for help. These years my boyfriend and I have had problems with my parents because they don't let us be boyfriends and we're hiding. Lately it happened that we went to the amusement park and my boyfriend was with other friends and I went with my brother and my boyfriend wanted to take a photo with me and my brother said no and he grabbed me so I wouldn't go with him and he felt bad and started to be distant with me and he became sad and right now he has a lot of problems and depression, we have already tried to talk to my parents but they don't give in and now he doesn't want to have a relationship because being with me causes him stress and sadness ( We also fought a lot) in the end I told him that I was going to help him and he stayed but I don't know how to help him. By the way, we are both about to turn 20 and we have been together for 3 years and everything has been like this in secret.
@courageousClementine6880
hi, what language do you speak? I can translate my words to your so its easier but what I would do if this was me is try talking to him about what makes him stressed about being with you. Then from that you can talk with him about gaining more trust with him about the subject he told you. Maybe you could also try getting closer to him again and let him be more conformable with you again. If he doesn’t want to do that then you could try meeting with him more but idk if your sneaking out to meet with him or smt so that migh be difficult but if you can that can help him be more comfortable around you and you can be together again.
This is all advise that you don’t have to take you can take others also👍