Higher Libido Than Him
Lately I’ve been feeling a bit alone in my relationship when it comes to physical intimacy. I have a pretty high drive and a more open, adventurous approach to connection in the bedroom, and while my partner is loving and kind, their interest doesn’t quite match mine. I try to be patient and respectful of their comfort level, but it’s hard not to feel like I’m suppressing a big part of who I am just to keep the peace. I’ve brought it up gently before, but I often feel like I’m being too much or asking for something that makes them uncomfortable, and that makes me hesitant to even bring it up again. I just want to feel seen and accepted in this part of myself without feeling like I’m a burden or too demanding. I’m trying to figure out how to navigate this in a way that honors both of our needs, but it’s definitely weighing on me.
@sunnysideup1... Instead of "I want more sex," try "Lately, I've been feeling a bit disconnected from you in the bedroom, and it makes me feel lonely, unseen, a bit sad.