Hopeless
36F
Ben with same person for 6 yrs he has hurt me I have hurt him but can’t seem to let it go and we both did stuff over 3 yrs ago been fighting and I have no more fight left in me don’t wanna give up I’m tired
@friendlyCurrent7476
I'm sorry you are both struggling.
If you genuinely want to be together and this is the relationship for you, you need to leave the past in the past and using open and honest communication, work through this and prioritise each other again, get the fun back 💚🤗
Yesss Thank u so much that’s all I been trying to do but he is stuck in the past so we might start out having fun together dinner movie and after on the ride home it’s always the passed getting thrown in my face but I don’t throw it in his because i genuinely whole heartedly forgave him
@friendlyCurrent7476
He needs to leave the past where it is, if he too wants things to work 💚
If you are both committed to making this work, you might want to consider couple therapy. It can provide a safe space to navigate your differences and build a foundation for a much healthier relationship moving forward.
