Hopeless , clueless and helpless

I’ll try to make it short , to begin with, I was married and hardly into that marriage for 15days or so cause I got to know about his mental health issues which he was under treatment and extremely threatening. So I had to move away .

cut to present . It’s been a year, I thought I’m happily married but he kinda a good guy, never restricted me , helpful and supportive with my career . He’s got an amazing family. He did he me twice and he promised he would never , and he never did that again. At times he bring up my past , or my previous relationships, and kinda abusive with his words . Trying to get him into a couple counselling but never cooperating. He would bring up that he want a divorce and he want to get into a next relationship. And thn apologise tat he was so angry and wasn’t able to control his words or whatever . So I’m stuck if I should give him a chance or leave this relationship right away . Or if I’m dng anytng wrong . I got no clue