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How to Let Go

User Profile: Aaquarius
Aaquarius January 10th, 2024

We broke up on a good terms and still remain friends/roommates (Trust me if I could lose contact with her, I would). But I still feel bitter or get hurt every time she’s texting her boyfriend or do anything related with her boyfriend. I prefer not to see her calling her boyfriend near me too. Just.. don’t.

I still need time to actually be okay.


How can I actually stop getting hurt because I’m tired of this too. Sometimes I feel like I’m selfish too for this. I wish I could just be happy and act usual

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User Profile: smallforestcreature
smallforestcreature January 11th, 2024

@Aaquarius That's sounds like it would be a difficult situation for anyone, and definitely not selfish to feel that way about it. Even if you are on good terms in general, healing takes time. You can be her friend, can be happy for her, but still feel hurt by it and not want to be around it. Have you mentioned any of these feelings to her?