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How to be w an unaffectionate guy

my partner doesn't need much physical affection but I love hugs n cuddling and I don't want him to do what he doesn't want to but how do you deal w an unaffectionate guy? do I need to find friends to cuddle with I don't even have any nearby ð¥²

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain July 26th

This divides some people so I always took it personally when the person I was dating, wasn't affectionate so I feel for you.

Now I realise, it's something I would need, when I was comfortable with them and it would be a dealbreaker.

Is there any way to compromise, is he into hand holding? If not full on hugs, what about an arm around the shoulder?

Have you addressed your concerns because it's important for him to understand your needs too.

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User Profile: energeticBeach5220
energeticBeach5220 OP July 26th

so it depends on his mood like only if he feels like doing he'll do it but that's quite rare and yes I've told him and he says that reason only

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain July 27th

@energeticBeach5220 Ahh ok, so either you accept it or don't really, it's tough.

Should we have to sacrifice our needs in relationships? I've no idea..

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@ScrabbleBrain

I really agree with this !!

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain July 27th

@ArtisticAngel999 Thanks I'm not blaming myself anymore when someone doesn't want to be affectionate, it's their loss :)

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