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How to move on?

User Profile: Futuristicthoughts
Futuristicthoughts June 14th, 2025

More than 10 yrs of relationship but you cannot ask about one special lady who calls her ur husband's friend and visits once a year. You husband is head over heels for her and is ready to separate from u for meeting her. Strange pre marital friendship and u cannot ask anything. This lady can speak nonsense on ur face but u cannot say anything to her or her husband as else u shud be ready to take nonsense from ur own husband. What do u make of it? you do not want to get out for the fear of being alone.

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User Profile: Futuristicthoughts
Futuristicthoughts OP June 15th, 2025

Does someone ever answer here. I am in need of just getting some good suggestions on how to really move on without holding any grudges and overcoming the feeling that you may still care for the other person....not sure from where to start actually?

User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins June 15th, 2025
@Футуристичнідумки This is definitely not a normal situation. Sorry if I'm a little rude, but in any person's life, their partner is the most important (maybe on par with their parents), and no "childhood friends" can be an obstacle, especially after 10 years of relationship. Especially if you have no right to say anything about her. Therefore, in this situation, you are either being deceived or simply not respected. I'm sorry
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User Profile: Futuristicthoughts
Futuristicthoughts OP June 16th, 2025

@Voodvins I like your answer as it was very straightforward and to the point. Can you suggest me some tips on moving on from this situation given my above comments, thanks

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Futuristicthoughts OP June 15th, 2025

Thanks what do you think should be the first step here as it's been a long period and all our friends and groups are common now. I am planning to move on and need some activity I guess to divert my mind from overthinking this and a new group of ppl around me too who I can rely on.

This looks pretty difficult but do give me some suggestions if you can as my job and household chores keeps me very busy normally and I am more of an introvert.