Husband issues
I just married for almost 2 years, we had a daughter 11 months old. Since I pregnant I feel that my husband changed, I feel that he doesn’t love me anymore bcs he doesn’t care about me. Sometimes he go whatever he wants, we are on long distance marriage and he comes home on a weekend. When he around, he sleep all day long, rarely to help me to take care our baby.
im tired of this situation, whenever I try to talk about this, try to communicate our problem he always avoid me or he changes the topic. If I’m mad at him, he never ask me what’s wrong with me? Why am I mad? But u know, he do silent treatment and mad back to me. Gosh, Im tired, sick and tired.
currently case, I want to but a ticket concert but he forbid me and say that he have no money. Meanwhile he went to Avenged concert a few months ago, and he want to buy linkin park concert in february 2025 so that why he want buy me a ticket concert. I know I only housewife so I dont have money, I feel like he doesn’t want me to be happy, I can’t entertain myself.
damn, I want divorce 😭
@amaliasandra
Hello. I am very sorry to hear about your feeling sad, left alone, neglected and rejected.
Being a housewife, a partner and a mother, I believe you are a valuable person, and you truly deserve some rest and relaxation. Of course, on condition that your child is well taken care of by your family or friends at the time.
I assume we are living in a world of equal rights, so I don't feel good about your suggestion that being "just a housewife" makes you someone of a lower kind. I believe caring about the house and children are as important as working professionally, and even much more challenging sometimes.
I think the decision who is staying at home, and who is going to another workplace is just a matter of the mutual agreement on "division of labour" in the marriage, and should not be making any partner feel worse than the other.
I hope your little child is well and sound 😊 How do you feel being a mother?
Personally, I am a father of two, and I still remember me running to buy some baby milk, baby toys, soothers, diapers, cleaning tissues. Changing diapers, feeding, teething problems, colics etc. As a father I often felt overwhelmed, but I am proud I did my best.
