I dont know what to do now
I have been in a relationship for 2 years and this was my first ever relationship. Being in a relationship is a totally new thing to me and i am usually unsure of what to do in many situations. I was not ready for the commitment and i also didn't tell anyone about my relationship. But she always guided me and tried her best to explain certain situations to me. I know that it was unfair for her so I tried my best to improve myself.
Now we broke up 3 weeks ago and im still unsure of what to do. We haven't talked to each other but I feel that I should since I still feel unsure about how she feels and her reasons for the breakup. I need someone to talk to for advice because my situation right now is complicated, making it difficult for me to talk to her. Im also not sure what to say to her. Im just rlly lost rn
@energeticOwl4776
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It sounds like your first relationship brought a lot of new experiences and challenges, and it's understandable that you're feeling lost right now. It's clear that you care about her and want to understand her perspective, but it's also okay to take your time to process everything.
Reaching out to talk could help bring some clarity, but it's important to approach it when you feel ready and with a clear mind. If you're unsure of what to say, maybe start by expressing how you're feeling and your desire to understand her side. Remember, it's okay to seek advice and support as you navigate this—relationships, especially your first one, can be complicated. I'm here if you need to talk more about it.
Thanks
but right now i feel that i shouldn't talk to her and should just move on. My friend which is friends with her told me that she had already said everything and theres nothing more to say. i dont think i would be a good idea to talk to her.
@energeticOwl4776
I understand how you're feeling right now and respect your decision to move on. It's important to do what's best for you. If your friend mentioned that she's already said everything she needed to, then it's okay to not pursue further conversation. Sometimes, the best course of action is to focus on your own well-being and let things be.
thanks for the advice
cant believe its been 10 months