I don't really know.

How can someone you have been with for 11 years just straight up tell you they hate you? Are they seeing someone on the side? This all started when his boss cheated on his wife and she left him and he stayed at my house fir anweek while we were on vacation. While on vacation everything was fine we had no problems. After coming home all heck broke loose. He yelled at me started a argument for no reason and then said he hated me and didn't want to be with me but wants to co exist in the same home. The last few months since he's been hanging around this so called friend he's changed alot. I feel like us just co exciting he just wants me to be a glorified maid? I love him with every fiber in me and I want to fix our relationship i just don't know how any more. I stay at home 24/7, i don't go anywhere except to go grocery shopping or to pick our kids up from school. God I wish my momma was still alive she would know what to say or do. He tells me everything is my fault that I mumatluape him and play mind games. I don't and he won't tell me what he means by that! I've tried talking to him and I get shot down. I just don't know what else to do any more.