I’m still in love with one of my best friends
Before I became friends with her, my intuition knew I would fall hard. Though I decided to take that risk because I wanted to know her for her. All of our mutual friends knew because I couldn’t shut up about her once we became friends. Eventually I decided to try to tell her how I felt. I don’t think I really expressed it well due to being an awkward high schooler. A week or two later they told me that they did not have feelings for me, which I accepted, but my feelings for them still remained no matter how hard I tried to let them go. I asked for mutual friends about what I could do, which is focus on myself and reorganize my priorities. I did so, but when I hung out with this person, my heart still ignited. Eventually word got back around to this person and they called me and we decided we should take a break from talking.
Sometimes I think I don’t have feelings for them, but then I realize I do when I feel something ignite in me when they are just being themselves.
I really don’t know what to do. Once again, I do take up in my hobbies, focus on work, school, planning for the future, and my family, but the feelings for my friend feel magnetic and come back when I don’t expect it.
@optimisticSummer856 🍁It sounds like you're navigating some complex emotions, 🌙which is completely understandable, especially when it comes to matters of the heart. It's natural to develop feelings for😄 someone, 💞and even when those feelings aren't reciprocated, they can linger. Taking breaks from interacting with the person might help create some distance 🌞and allow you to focus on yourself and your priorities. Additionally,🍿 exploring new hobbies and spending time with🪙 supportive friends and family can provide a healthy distraction. Ultimately, only you can decide what's best for you in this situation, whether it's maintaining distance from your friend⛄ or finding ways to manage your feelings☘️ while still maintaining the friendship. It's okay to take your time and give yourself space to process your emotions.🌊