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In a rocky position 🫠

User Profile: miraclenotice
miraclenotice September 10th, 2023

So me and my boyfriend been together for over a year and I just can’t get over the fact he is friends with a girl he had sex with before. It was years ago but for some reason it rubs me the wrong way because I have no male friends that me and them had a “thing” awhile back and we just decided to be just friends. Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable about they’re relationship? And how can I talk to him about it without starting an argument because this has been a discussion before and he straight said he wasn’t going to stop talking to whoever I had a problem with because they been friends for years.

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User Profile: LovingPeacefulHeart
LovingPeacefulHeart September 10th, 2023

@miraclenotice <3


I would certainly never say a feeling is wrong. It’s OK to feel uncomfortable with this, and it’s also OK for him to continue being friends with her after being… involved like that. I don’t think it’s fair to demand that he cut ties with this person, and it’s not fair to yourself to brood over this. What can you do or even ask him to do to make this less threatening?