I need advice with my distrutful girlfriend
Hello all, first post here, I hope I'm in the right place.
I've been in a relationship with a girl for three months, it seemed that things between us were fine, lots of love and passion, but lately I notice her distant, distrustful, in a bad mood.
She thinks I'm going to leave her to go back with my ex, I had a relationship with him for four years, but I left him for very serious reasons, abuse, infidelity, jealousy, basically all the bad things that can happen in a relationship, going back with him would be just suicidal.
But, my girlfriend is like obsessed that I'm going to leave her to go back to my ex because that's what happened to her in her previous relationship.
As much as I try to show her that I love her and that I'm not going to hurt her, things get worse, and worse and she becomes colder and more distant, like she's trying to put a wall between us before she gets hurt.
I don't know what to do anymore, I love her very much and I don't know what to do to make her believe that I'm not going to break her heart.
@Sihana Hello! I am really sorry to hear that you and your girlfriend are going through this. I can understand how she feels after being hurt in a previous relationship, but that doesn't mean it's fair for her to treat you this way. You are not her previous relationship, so you don't deserve to be treated that way. Have you tried sitting down and having a talk with her? It sounds like she needs to heal before being in another relationship and you don't deserve to have that constant pressure on yourself. I hope you guys are able to figure something out and you can enjoy the relationship together. Please know that we are always here for you and I am thinking of you!❤️