I need help :(
Klorfe
June 21st, 2025
Okay, so I met this guy back in October, I dated him and broke up that same week and month and we stayed as best friends. But this month(now that we are entering highschool) like 2 or 3 weeks ago he confessed to me, yet he said we couldn't date for some of his personal reasons, I don't mind staying as friends for now. And even tho we are not dating he treats me like his gf! I don't know what to do... i mean...we don't date because we are young...and I wanna be with him until we are adult like really bad!! I'm stressed out and don't know what to do!! Is there any adult out there that could tell me how to make it work until me and him become Adults?
Voodvins
June 21st, 2025
@Klorfe Well, it's hard to give advice in this case, because relationships are always difficult, but if you're talking about adults, they sometimes behave like children too. But in general, what can help in your case is honesty and setting personal boundaries. If you feel that your communication is not as you would like - tell your friend about it. Be honest with him. If you think that he is going beyond the limits - set boundaries so that he understands. And then you will see the real depth of his attitude towards you, and maybe you will move on, and maybe not.