Infidelity
Anyone go through infidelity that has lead to a baby. My husband and I have decided to stay together, but I struggle with trusting him because the other girl is constantly putting a wedge between us. In my mind emotional cheating is still cheating. Anyone have any ideas what some realistic boundaries look like in this situation? Today was a bad day for me with trigger after trigger. And I have no one and only see my therapist twice a month. We are in counseling and we both really like him.
@decisiveAcres5101
To start, if there has already been infidelity, it’s clear that it creates insecurity, anxiety, and a constant state of alert on your part due to the breakdown of the relationship agreements that were violated. Because of that, unfortunately, you won’t be able to feel calm or at peace, especially with the ongoing uncertainty and even more so if he’s still in contact with the other woman.
From the moment infidelity occurs in a relationship, it becomes very difficult to return to a place where you truly feel comfortable. It’s also important to remember that what happened wasn’t a mistake it was a conscious decision your husband made. So it’s worth asking yourself whether it’s really worth staying with someone who made that choice.
What are you hoping to gain, knowing that he crossed every boundary of respect and commitment in your relationship?
How is it possible that the other woman still has a place in your relationship? Your husband is the one who needs to set firm boundaries and make things clear. If he doesn’t, that should be more than enough of a sign that you shouldn’t continue in this situation unless you’re willing to remain in a toxic environment.
On your side, you also need to set clear boundaries with your husband, since he is the one who allowed this situation in the first place.
Above all, you need to prioritize your own peace and happiness.
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