I really want to move on from her.
I've recently had a breakup with my ex girlfriend of 9 months. She said she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and doesn't want to date me but wants to stay in touch. We're still in contact but I'm so attached to her. I was even thinking about moving countries to make it up to her. I really want to heal, detach and be hopeful how can i do that?
My advice is, don’t spend too much time fighting for someone to keep you. If they let you go once—maybe they were scared, unhappy, unsure— we can put forth our feelings and intentions to try and convince them otherwise. But do so only once. If after that their mind still doesn’t change—let it be. Start moving on. Start healing. The longer you hold on to this, the longer it’ll take for you to find happiness again.