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I still live with my ex and it’s making me INSANE

User Profile: judatsme123
judatsme123 October 3rd, 2025

I got with my ex when I was 17. She had family issues and ended up bouncing from house to house before moving in with me. At first it was okay, but she started going through my phone and even my journal, which made me feel like I had no privacy. We moved out together and things calmed down for a bit, but then she got distant and started treating me mean. I stayed because I didn’t want to leave her with nowhere to go, even though I was broke and stressed. It took her 6 months to get a job, and once she did, we still fought a lot. The last fight, she called me a bunch of names like “lazy,” “a nerd,” and “a hurt little boy,” which really cut deep because I felt like I was already carrying everything on my shoulders.

Now we still live together, but I have a new job and I’m just trying to save up so I can finally get out of here.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 4th, 2025

@judatsme123

🥺

Congratulations on the new job.

You are not any of those things she calls you.

You have more value .

You matter.

You deserve better.

I hope you get a new place soon, stay strong 💜💕

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User Profile: judatsme123
judatsme123 OP October 8th, 2025

Thank you so much this means the world to me

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 11th, 2025

@judatsme123

A pleasure 💜 

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User Profile: MagesticButterfly2448
MagesticButterfly2448 October 11th, 2025

I am so sorry you’re going through this and sounds toxic and draining and I pray the best outcome happens!! Here to talk if you need someone to talk to about relationships and stress etc.

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User Profile: judatsme123
judatsme123 OP October 11th, 2025

I would love to talk, I’ll text you .

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