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I think I jumped into the deep end without knowing how to swim

User Profile: JadeDagger
JadeDagger January 13th

So me and my ex are talking again, and they're amazing, genuinely the sweetest person ever, but they're also talking to a friend who definitely likes them, and my ex also isn't over their last situationship, and I don't know what to do, any advice?

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User Profile: Lyra
Lyra January 13th

@JadeDagger

Hiya Jade, thanks so much for reaching out and posting, I know it's not easy to put your problems out there. How are you feeling about being back in contact with your ex? It sounds like there's a lot of mixed feelings there and not knowing what they're thinking, which I imagine is causing you a lot of anxiety!

I think the trick with any relationship is communication - even if you don't feel like it's a relationship relationship, being as honest as you can and having that conversation about their expectations. When I'm having that kind of conversation, it's good to avoid accusatory language and stick to how their actions are making you feel, it's much harder to be misunderstood that way. 

Good luck and hope you get some clarity soon! 

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User Profile: JadeDagger
JadeDagger OP January 13th

I will try and talk to them about it soon, I'm happy we're back in contact, they were my best relationship and honestly one of my best friends.

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