Letting go
Today, I asked my husband for a separation.
I have tried. I have fought for this marriage, but I can no longer fight for something that only I seem to value. I have spent too long begging for my place in his life, accepting crumbs while his baby mama and children receive the best of him.
I deserve to be loved, respected, and chosen without having to compete for my husband’s attention and affection.
So today, it ends. I choose me.
This is one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made. I’m a mess. I’m miserable. I’m shattered. My heart is broken, and I know the road ahead won’t be easy.
But despite the pain, despite the tears, despite everything…
Yes. Yes. Yes.
I’m done.
It's a brave decision you made and I'm glad you're putting your needs first. At least you can say you tried and gave it your all.
I wish you all the luck in your healing journey and I wonder if after it's too late, you'll finally be seen and valued for the loving person that you are.
Take care of yourself. I hope you have people to lean on and support you :)
I’m crumbling 😭😭
@mrsklaas Aw, it won't always feel like that. Just be however you need to be and the 7 cups folks have your back :)
