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User Profile: sensibleGrapes4856
sensibleGrapes4856 June 28th, 2023

Hi, I have a disability and can't drive and ever since graduating the only way out of my house is through family or my best friend and my best friend just got a girlfriend. Every relationship I've ever been in I get cheated on, what's wrong with me? Why can't I find love but my best friend and brother can so easily?

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User Profile: Mya000
Mya000 June 29th, 2023

@sensibleGrapes4856 I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It can be incredibly disheartening when it seems like others around us are finding love easily while we face challenges in our own relationships.

Please remember that your worth and value as a person are not determined by your relationship status or experiences. It's important not to blame yourself or believe that there is something inherently wrong with you. Finding love takes time, and everyone's journey is different.

In terms of your disability and limited mobility, it can present unique challenges when it comes to meeting new people and exploring potential romantic relationships. However, it's important to remember that love is not limited to romantic partnerships alone. Meaningful connections and fulfilling relationships can be found in various forms, such as friendships, supportive family relationships, and other social circles.

Instead of focusing on what you perceive as shortcomings or comparing yourself to others, try to cultivate self-love and self-acceptance. Focus on your own personal growth, interests, and passions. Engage in activities and communities that bring you joy and allow you to meet like-minded individuals who appreciate and value you for who you are.

It's also worth considering seeking support from a therapist or counsellor who can help you explore your feelings, build self-esteem, and provide guidance in navigating relationships. They can offer personalized advice and strategies to help you develop healthy and fulfilling connections.

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User Profile: sensibleGrapes4856
sensibleGrapes4856 OP June 30th, 2023

I need a romantic partner and fast.

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User Profile: sallymae3459
sallymae3459 July 4th, 2023

@sensibleGrapes4856 it takes time to find that but maybe dating apps might help you find someone but also that takes time too.

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