Lonely
Im new here,61 year old male,married, grown children and grandchildren. Last year I found out one of my daughter's is not mine. I knew my wife cheated,but I stayed with her. Am I just stupid for staying .
@feellostandalone
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I'm sorry you had to go through this.
It's alot to process and get your head around but you are most definitely not stupid 🩷
If you would be interested in listening, I would like to talk if ok.
@feellostandalone
I too have that feeling of my 14year old kid not being mine.. don't want to face it and the embarrassment... single dad of one that is tired of my failed relationships
I understand that,finding out my daughter was not mine,and my 2 grandchildren were not blood related, was devastating to me. We have kept that quiet between them.
@feellostandalone
Hi, I’m glad to see you here. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. Knowing your wife betrayed you and has hidden it from you for years must terribly hurt. Choosing to stay does not make you stupid. It shows how much you value your family and the life you have together.
Have you been talking to anyone about this? We are here for you! 💛
Just new hear,haven't talked to anyone. So this is the first time.
It’s a very strong move to come here and talk about such sensitive topics in the first place. And I hope it will help you understand things better. How have you been coping with all of this lately?
I have been on here but it was hard to just say anything to begin with. Trying to find the right words. I guess im trying to cope with it,but it is hard. There is much more that happened, but hard to talk
I totally understand that. Sometimes it takes time to find the right words, but after you’re ready to start writing, we will be right here.
Everyone is going through some rough times. And talking makes us feel, like we are everything but alone. And that, we don’t have to carry this on our backs alone.
Just take your time, and share what feels right for you when you’re ready 💛
You have actually been the first person I have talked to, and I greatly appreciate that.
I’m here and more than happy to talk with you! 💛
What do you feel like you need most right now, to help you feel little lighter?
I guess to just talk about the past,I've kept it bottled up inside for so long,keeping all these secrets from the rest of the family.
If you would be willing to listen ,I would like to talk if ok
Hi! Sadly I can’t connect to you on 1-1 chat. But you can talk about what you want in the forums and put @luvArisu there, and I will reply!
Ok thank you
Thanks for all the encouragement