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Lost Relationship Of 6 Years ,Yr Later I’m with The Person I Want But I’m Still grieving My Past Relationship

User Profile: GodsSonAlways
GodsSonAlways September 23rd, 2025

Just Got Out Of A 6yr Relationship My Gf decided to end things with me Last Yr June, It’s Been A yr Now I Now Have A Child With the Person I want And Deserve But me leaving my past relationship changed me in bad ways I just want to be the loving happy person I was before this breakup I still think about the relationship and how bad things broke off after so much time .It feels wrong to still think about the past relationship while I have someone who appreciates me. Just need the best advice it’s affecting my head space an thinking

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 23rd, 2025

@GodsSonAlways

Six years was a long time.

Feelings are heightened and can be buried .

I'm glad you are with someone else now and happy with a baby.

That's great 😊 

I know it's easier said than done but allow yourself to heal and to fully invest in your current partner, you deserve to let go and be happy 💜💕

User Profile: decisiveRaspberries1848
decisiveRaspberries1848 September 24th, 2025

Your past will always be a part of you, but it doesn’t have to control you. Try making a list each day of 3 things you are grateful for in your life, they can be simple things like a roof over your head, and keep with it. Also talk to your significant other about how you feel, be open and honest and communicate frequently.

Good luck.