Mayn
I can’t be intimate with people and idk why it’s like either I hate them or they hate me and ik when the same issues pop up over and over ur the problem like ik that but I wish ik how to change it bc I would if ik what to do idk how to stop like hating everyone
@lillobster06
Hello lillobster06!
Negative emotions are always difficult to deal with, it seems that they hit back like a boomerang the person feeling them. Sorry you are in this loop.
Sometimes it's also difficult to find the right match with friends or to form a closer emotional connection with someone (i think that's what you call intimate relationship), but I have a positive view that I want to share with you: I'm sure it exists the right person for everyone out there! Even if now it seems super frustrating seeing that the cycle repeats, see if you can consider a more hopeful view on the matter.
When the strong negative emotion happens (hate), see if you can lower it a bit by thinking that's nothing personal against you, it's just that there wasn't a good enough chemistry/connection to experience a positive relationship. Could that work?
Wish you to feel better soon, take care!
- I guess I do not hate people to that level but most people I don't like. Feel we cannot trust them, most people don't treat others well and are selfish...it's few who I find good company at the moment
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@lillobster06
@friendlyBranch6230
Hi friendlyBranch6230!
Yes you are right, trust is very important and it's good there are people you can feel safe with! 😊