Mixed signals
Hello everyone, i'm sharing my story ,
I liked a girl that i know as simple friends ( not close friends) and as a first move i just tell her what i feel ، she said we need to know each other and that's clear and okaaay , in the first everything was going right , she texts she is showing interest which is good , then this interest and contact is slowley declining and idk why she reply late , she didn't open discussion,
For exemple : today i texted her to check how her day is going she said fine and good and she didn't asked how my day was ( she used to ask in the past )
Idk how to deal with that and i need to know if she is really not interested in me so i can cut off to do not lose more energy and time than i have already lost , and move on faster
@Crowley2711
It's very unpleasant to feel as though you're "in limbo," with a relationship. I think it happens mostly when a person has difficulty sharing their feelings. In this case, she may be wanting to let the friendship "fade away." On the other hand, she may be concerned about the relationship moving forward too quickly, and she's attempting to keep feelings from becoming too intense.
I think the best way to tell if a person is losing interest, does involve giving it a bit of time. If she continues to come across as less interested, that may be what's happening. I understand you'd rather know right now if she's wanting to walk away, but other than directly asking her about it, the only way to gain a pretty good idea of what she has in mind is wait and see.
Typically, when a person wants a relationship to end, and they're not good at being honest about it, communication does decrease, and it becomes less encouraging.
Only time will tell if it's diminished interest, temporary distraction or something else.
