My Five Year Love No Longer Feel The Same
I've been falling in love with my best friend for five years. One year into our friendship she confesses. Two years later we try romance. I've been put through the cycle of breakup and get back together for two years and this is the end of that...Now I'm stuck with the pain and trauma of losing her romantically, it's only been a month and a half but I desperately need advice to alleviate this ongoing unbearable pain, I'm taking space from her, I'm talking to people, I know time helps but I need something fast! I've been in crisis dozens of times over this (help from a Crisis Hotline was received) Creativity is welcome!
@BrazenBrunette
Losing someone who was both your best friend and your partner is a double loss, so it makes sense that it hurts this deeply. Five years is a long time to build your world around one person, and a month and a half is still very fresh, even if it feels endless right now. I know you want something fast to make it stop, but what you’re feeling isn’t a failure to cope, it’s grief doing its thing. Give yourself some grace at this sensitive period and I really wish you the very best brazen!! take care!
Thank you : )