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Narcissistic Abuse

User Profile: Hopingforbetter25
Hopingforbetter25 July 22nd, 2025

3 weeks ago I left the father of my kids. We were together for 11 years and 4 months. After having in our 1st child he starting cheating. Then a few years later ended up having a child with someone else. I’m not sure why I didn’t leave then because he got abusive around that time as well. 2 years ago we had our 2nd child and now I’m currently 6 almost 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child. He's making it really hard to cope this break up. He’s a narcissist as well. He’s tried contacting me off of 12 different numbers and will show up randomly sometimes as well. Our daughter and I are scared of him. Along with his other child’s mother and their child is scared of him as well. But it’s been almost a month and he won’t stop or accept the fact it’s over.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 22nd, 2025

@Hopingforbetter25

🥺

His behaviour is not ok.

You deserve to be safe and happy as does your child.

Keep a record of all he does, says and anytime he shows up.

You gave him way too many chances, now is your time, sending you my best wishes and I hope he gets the message and gets on with his own life 💕💜

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User Profile: Hopingforbetter25
Hopingforbetter25 OP July 22nd, 2025

Thank you. Really needed to hear that. ❤️

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 July 23rd, 2025

@Hopingforbetter25

A genuine pleasure 💜💕

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User Profile: toughStrings3673
toughStrings3673 July 23rd, 2025

@Hopingforbetter25

How are you financially stable i caught my husband cheating..and I'm not financially independent i don't know what to do and I can't go back to my family either I don't have my Father anymore 

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User Profile: Hopingforbetter25
Hopingforbetter25 OP July 23rd, 2025

I’m so sorry to hear that. I’m not financially stable right now either. But my mom and my dad both help when they can. I try not to ask for help though. I have a big support system when it comes to the kids. But for myself is where I struggle at the moment. But I try to look at it like this, the struggle is only for a moment but it’s brings you out on top in the end.

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