New here
Hey guys, New here. Trying this thing out. I want to look at my toxic behaviors as well as dealing with feeling like my needs are unmet in the relationship. I am wanting to take an honest look at myself and see if I am the damaged one in the relationship or if we both need some work.
Welcome to the community! It's great to see you taking the initiative to reflect on your behaviors and the dynamics in your relationship. Being willing to look at yourself honestly and address potential toxic behaviors is a significant step towards personal growth and healthier relationships.
@Iknowiamnotalone111
It's awesome you're here! What are some stuffs you wanna talk about? I can be a friend if you want or just a wall to vent to...
@Iknowiamnotalone111
Welcome to 7 Cups! It’s great that you’re taking the time to reflect on your relationship and your own behavior. It can be tough to navigate these feelings, but self-awareness is a big step toward growth. Maybe start by looking at specific instances where you felt your needs weren’t met or where you might have acted in ways that you’re not proud of. It might also help to talk things through with your partner to see if you can find common ground. Remember, it’s okay for both people in a relationship to have things they want to work on.
I hope you find the support you’re looking for here!
Welcome! I joined today for a very similar reason and hope we both are able to analyze our situations and come up with a better solution! I hope your partner isn't trying to convince you you're damaged and the sole reason for the issues you both face!