Office Relationships
I need help. I am entangled in a mess . I M-21 am involved with someone at least two years younger. The thing is he came unto me and everytime he kisses me or touches me he refuses to dignify it with a reason why. I know it's my fault for letting it begin in the first place but I think I am falling for him and I think he knows it. But won't tell me how he feels. Instead he evades such questions by trying to get intimate with me. I have to see him everyday which means that whenever I go home and work out a new resolve to resist him he's the first person I see(we share a workspace) . Long story short my resolve to stay away never works out. I want to stop feeling this way, I need it to end. It's beginning to affect my work and life generally. What do I do?
@willingWalker7242
He has no right to not dignify it with a reason or to continue if you say, no. He sounds very immature and to not give you the answers you ask. He is using you and you deserve better. You deserve to be happy and in a healthy relationship with someone who respects and takes your feelings into consideration. Tell him firmly you are working colleagues and nothing more and if he doesn't respect that, you'll have to take it further. You deserve to be happy, you matter 💕💜
Thanks for this reassurance. It sometimes makes me feel as though I am pushing too hard, and I don't want to force my expectations onto him.
Thanks for this reassurance. It sometimes makes me feel as though I am pushing too hard, and I don't want to force my expectations onto him.
