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Opinions and possible relationship break up

User Profile: versatileCamp6498
versatileCamp6498 October 7th, 2025

So I read comics books on pirating websites, and those websites have sexual or pornographic ads. I do my best to ignore the ads and x them out but they always come back. Last night o was reading and the ads kept on coming up. And I got tempted by it and I ended up touching my self. But the thing is me and my gf live together in the same dorm. I went to the bathroom to touch my self but I felt disgusted with my self and I ended up closing it out after I finished and went to sleep. I havnt touched myself in over a year+ I left My phone on the tab and when my gf woke up she saw it and got mad. I told her the whole truth and she started to cry and told me to leave her alone. We had talked about this before in the past were I mention it as a joke and she has stated that she doesn’t care but seeing her reaction it a bit different and she has done somthing like this before to me over the phone while i was asleep I’m just worry that she might want to break up after this. I hoped to get any opinions and what I should do

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 8th, 2025

@versatileCamp6498

It's just about having an honest and open conversation.

Respecting each other's space and giving each person the chance to say their peace, respectfully and calmly.

What you did was not disgusting or unnatural, it's a normal and healthy part of life, it's just about getting to the root of what constitutes as appropriate and healthy and what are both of your boundaries within a relationship!

💕💜